Ok merged the threads since they can be fixed by the same thing... I will advice you to do this:
go to your flyforhero folder located on your C drive somewhere i presume
open the file called neuz.ini and chande the ip there to: 64.120.173.17
after that you open up the patcher but dont press anything yet
now in the top right part of it you will find a small triangle facing down; press that
now look in your task bar (lokated in your bottem left corner of your screen)
you should there find a small circle with the buff pang inside it; right click that
now the 4th option from the bottom says advanced setting; click here
change the connection ip to: 64.120.173.17
this should fix your problem